I didn’t become a Psychologist! I just figured that I am a Psychologist!

No one can become Psychologist by studying or by getting a degree. Any human being, by making attempts to understand himself / herself and by learning how to empathize with self Undergoes transformation that automatically leads Him or her too A place where He or she becomes capable of helping others by understanding and empathizing … Continue reading I didn’t become a Psychologist! I just figured that I am a Psychologist!

The thieves of identity

More the envy they feel about someone, more are the chances that they will choose that person as victim. They love and get attracted to the vulnerability. They don’t have identity of their own. So they always tend to copy others. After absorbing identity of victim, they leave victim in a place where they initially … Continue reading The thieves of identity

Parents break child’s identity into pieces when they don’t know how to handle mistakes.

Children take risks and learn different processes. Some children take bigger risks like jumping from height, fighting with teachers / friends, copying etc. Where as other children take smaller risks like cycling, playing, dancing, not listening to class etc. It is common that they face adverse consequences ranging between getting suspended from school to breaking … Continue reading Parents break child’s identity into pieces when they don’t know how to handle mistakes.

Attacking the connections that exist between emotions, thoughts and body is a self destructive behavior!

My client Hema (imaginary) had been suffering from insomnia from few months. She cannot sleep in the nights. She kept on describing how difficult it is to manage. She feels tired and exhausted in the day time. But I figured out that there is something fishy in her description. She told me so many times … Continue reading Attacking the connections that exist between emotions, thoughts and body is a self destructive behavior!

6 patterns of clients that hinder the process of counseling

Why some clients get benefited from counseling where as others dont ? Why some people can get healed, where as others can't ? What stops a person from healing himself or herself ? What are the patterns of clients that hinder the process of counseling? I worked as a Counselling Psychologist for more than 2 … Continue reading 6 patterns of clients that hinder the process of counseling