We think that two people argue about one thing. Some arguments leads to fights. Sometimes we dont understand the reason. We fail to ressolve. Why?
Imagine an example:
Person 1: plants are green in colour
Person 2: Sky is blue
Person 1: No, they are green
Person 2: You are a stupid, it is blue
What is happening in the example? Two people are talking about two different things. Both of them are right, but problem is, they are thinking that they are talking about same thing.
That is what happens during arguments. We think that we are talking about same thing. But perceptual world of every individual is so unique. So during an argument, topic about which we talk appears same, but individual perception of that topic is so different. Everyone thinks that their perception is truth. But their is no absolute truth. There are only perceptions in this world.