Sometimes we cannot trust others. We face many insecurities. So many questions pop up in our mind. We try to get confirmations from others. If we try to change ourself by trusting others, we fail.
Reason is, we are failing to understand what the underlying cause is. Not trusting others is manifestation of not trusting ourself!
We can change by trying to trust ourself, but not by trying to trust others.
There will be so many reasons to trust ourself. There will also be reasons not to trust. Problem comes when we be very self critical and focus only on reasons not to trust ourself! What is the use of being self critical when it is not helping to gain trust? After all we are humans!