When we assign some bigger value to simple things, they become very difficult for us to do… We need to check the values that we assign to things. Example, imagine someone who cannot ask for help. It is possible that they have added value to it. For them, meaning of asking help could be inefficiency!
Month: April 2018
Firstly we read things.We understand things when we get the meaning of what we read.We experience things when we get the insight of what we understand.We absorb things when we use our insights everywhere.We write during the process and other person undergoes same cycle when he/she reads our writings.
Imagine someone did something unfair to us. Unfair act could include anything that hurts, like violence, humiliation, bullying, strict parenting, etc. We loose trust in ourself and seek approval from others. That means, we are not trusting the victim, but we are trusting the people who are actually responsible for victims pain! Are we giving … Continue reading
Sometimes we cannot trust others. We face many insecurities. So many questions pop up in our mind. We try to get confirmations from others. If we try to change ourself by trusting others, we fail.Reason is, we are failing to understand what the underlying cause is. Not trusting others is manifestation of not trusting ourself!We … Continue reading
We learn throughout our life that we have to ignore our negative emotions. We read in moral stories about negative emotions in a pessimistic light. Some theories also talk about gaining control over emotions. We assume that emotional human beings are weak.In reality, Emotions are not meaningless! They do not depict vulnerability. They depict humanity! … Continue reading
When we overthink, so many thoughts are generated. The thoughts act like bricks to form complex buildings. We fill the gaps to make connections. The buildings that are formed appear beautiful. Complexes made of thoughts include theories, fantasies and stories.Problem is, when we fill gaps by making wrong connections, reality that has to occupy the … Continue reading
I took a very long journey and travelled all over the world!I sailed through oceans and seas…I walked through forests and snow lands…I climbed up mountains and rocks…I passed through deserts and islands…I faced floods and droughts…I survived earthquakes and hurricanes…When I reached the destination, I figured out that my journey took me to same … Continue reading
K L Niharika 