Is there anything that is not yours? If you think so, that means you are escaping from it. Every problem has a solution. Commitment and perseverance can help you to hold on.
If there is issue with someone, that could be rectified by improving understanding.
example: A kid shouts on parents. If you search the meaning, you will understand that kid is seeking attention.
If there is any issue with philosophy, that means there is some personal hurt.