Transparency makes your path clear. It helps you in being confident and strong. You will spend very less energy when you speak truth! It also helps in building right image in other person’s view.
Commitment helps you in hanging on. Failure is just an experiment. Problem is an adventure. To get such positive perception towards life, you should go on… You should never stop your journey.

Every person is uniqu. You cannot judge the necessities and interests of other person. There is no objectivity in priorities.
In India, children and women are not economically independent for long span of their life. That gives control to the person who is earning. Even earning children and women are emotionally dependent on parents. So they themselves handover their income to elders on the name of respect.
In general, people, especially parents judge the priorities. Parents give money to children after making judgement. They evaluate the necessity of thing that has to be bought. There are few psychological issues related to this. Parents negative comments before allowing children to buy can generate guilt in the children.
Alternative solution is to teach responsibility. Parents can teach children how to spend money. Choice of what to buy has to be left to child. Instead of making analysis before buying, general discussion could be carried out in order to understand interests of others. During discussions, children will understand advantages and disadvantes of materials. They also might get new perspectives regarding necessity.

Sometimes, you might choose immature way of doing something!
Example: you cry, become vulnerable and show anger
Other times, you might choose mature way of doing something!
Example: you be emotionally stable, be rational and logical
Whatever is the way, outcome will be the same. Only difference is, when you do in immature way, you wont be very confident of what you are doing. So you will experience some negative emotions like guilt, shame etc….Immature acts help you in learning how to act maturely next time.
Psychology helps just in making you understand why you did it. That gives confidence to you. Your negative emotions vanish.
You may think, your journey towards insight building starts when you enter into counselling. But truth is, the circumstances that brought you to counselling are also created by you! That creation is the beginning of the journey.
Example: You might think, entrance exam made you doctor. But truth is, your journey started when you started liking biology in your school!
Yes! You yourself have started the journey long back!