We all are in race. To get name, fame, money, success, etc…
But just stop for a second and think about it! Why are we in race? All the paths which leads to success are dumb to some extent. Self sufficiency and satisfaction can never be acheived through race.
There is a false or irrational belief system behind helping nature. We help others because we want help from others. “God takes care of people those who help others”. This is the core belief that is there behind helping nature. I am not a atheist. I am not arguing that this belief is wrong. I am just reminding you that this is a BELIEF!!!
In the same way, there is a reason behind why we set life purpose. If we lack something, we project it on society. We perceive it as a external problem and select a purpose that solves the problem. Here, we have to recognise that problem is not there in society, but its there in ourselves. When we understand the fact, we will try to fix ourselves and then purpose will loose is strength. Ignorance is bliss. Thats why people are setting good purposes and they are contributing to the society.
Thirdly, we compete with friends, classmates and relatives. Neither we understand our rights when we sacrifice nor we understand that there are limited number of resources when we envy.
We try to take revenges. We remember unlimited amount of crap. This happens when we live in past.
Therefore there is no valid reason to be in race!!!!

Transportation has become very comfortable today. Anyone can travel to any place.
  There is globalization. Parents are travelling across countries to take care of their offsprings. Students are travelling to persue jobs. Business people are travelling.
  Who is travelling? Is it your body or your mind???
All travels are not journeys. When you travel to other place, only your body will be there. Your mind will be there only if you do the following
Have a purpose
Understand the significance of the place.
Visit all the prominant spots
Follow the culture
Understand the people
Get involved in local activities
Enjoy the stay!!!

I am writing this post based on one of my personal experience. There is no logic and this post is not SCIENTIFIC. Its just a belief!
      As I mentioned in my introduction, I was a researcher previously. When I was studying biology, I searched for biological anthropology courses and found Cambridge course. It impressed me very much. Though I never thought of going and studying there, I noted down the details of the course.
      Later I joined in psychology. I enrolled for study abroad program and accidentally visited cambridge museum like a tourist. Surprizingly, my journey took me to biological anthropology department. I remembered the searches that i have made almost 4 years ago.
     Same pattern occurs many times. We think of something and we forget. We accidentally meet the same thing about which we thought.
       How can we explain?
May be our mind has a capacity to link up with physical objects through thoughts… this must be the logic behind penance!!!
      You think deeply about something. You might forget it, but you are somehow connected to it. That connection manifests itself as coincidence.
ISN’T IT????????????


People seek help generally from their friends and family. They think that they can even solve big problems by taking support from relatives and friends.
Why you cant receive help from relatives and friends?
They cannot simply listen.
They also get emotions and they get biased
They impose their opinions
They cannot accept your feelings as how they are
They want to erase negative emotions from you immediately which is not really possible
They want to stop your bad thoughts and promote your good thoughts
They want immediate results. They cant see you weak